Hello my chosen family, it's a very quick message today. Today, of all days being Valentine's Day, I want to send my love and virtual hugs to each and every one of you.💖⭐
The 14th is also a complex day for me, because it is the day that I carried my dad's coffin and finally said farewell to him. It was his funeral date…
My dad was an amazing man… my only supporter for myself as a trans guy. When he died, I lost both parents; even though my mum is still alive. That's another story…
He was instrumental in helping me understand what was going on for me, and assisting me to access help. Most of all, he had a fantastic sense of humor; even in the bleakest of times…I am forever be grateful for him. There is not a day that goes by that I don't miss him, talk to him and do my best to carry on for him. Despite sometimes overwhelming odds and health issues.
I chose to carry his coffin all those years ago, as it was the last thing that I could do for him… to carry him… as he had carried me in my lifetime. He was a great guy and gone too soon.
I wrote and created this music video below, ‘Happy As Can Be’ today. Inspired by the overwhelming emotions many in our community are currently feeling regarding recent diversity, equity and inclusivity rollbacks, as well as the transgender and non-binary bans in America.
You can watch it over on our youtube channel, and you can even purchase a copy if you would like to help support further. The links are: https://iconiclgbtq-shop.fourthwall.com/products/happy-as-can-be-single-instant-mp3-download or https://iconiclgbtq.gumroad.com/l/happyascanbe
Aiming to be a positive voice, uplifting our community at this time, I'm here to remind us all that: It's okay to take a step back and take a break. Follow your bliss and remember to prioritize your mental health.
Remember to find the small things that make you laugh, or uplift you and give you joy still - even in these challenging times. Together, we are stronger ⭐
Love uplifting Gay Pride music anthems? Then you might also like to check out my other musical creations in the video here. These are five tracks from the full 10 track album, which again is available over on the stores.
Rainbow Warriors, which you hear at the top of this page, is one of those remaining 5 tracks on the full album.
If you haven’t already joined me, then do also consider becoming a paid yearly subscriber https://theartofgaystyle.substack.com/about to access many of these albums completely free of charge, as well as ebooks and downloadable digital graphics for use in your own projects, or just simply for your own cell phone or laptop screen savers.
Paid subscribers also receive access to every newsletter, walking meditations, podcasts and so much more.
Even if you can't become a paid subscriber, it's lovely to have you with me as a free subscriber. Thank you for being here.
You can also support by purchasing all of our amazing artwork from our Red Bubble store https://www.redbubble.com/people/ItsAKinkThing/shop Proceeds support, LGBTQ+ artists living with disabilities worldwide.









At approaching nearly half a century on this crazy spinning rock, I don't have answers …However, I realize what I do know is: I love each and every one of you as my fellow energetic souls having a human experience here.
I wish you all an amazing and safe journey today, and always. Never forget that the journey IS the destination. Let's try to enjoy the climb! Stay strong stay proud and stay authentically you. With love, light and positivity. Coach Adam. ⭐😎💖
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